Reflections on marriage

Last night I had my last session with a sweet couple preparing to get married.  I think they will do well, but this morning I spent a moment reflecting on the key elements that make marriage work and decided on this simple statement,

A good marriage is made of two great forgivers.

These words, for me, distill love and marriage to its essence.  It describes what love lived out looks like.  I hope I communicated this well to my friends as they start their marriage.  I know it has been vital for us.  I don't think we would have made it if my wife wasn't a wonderful forgiver.  I hope I've done as well in my love to her.  So, if you're looking for a simple formula for a good marriage here is my advice- forgive well and often.